The period of time before and after a divorce is stressful for many people. You are expected to make rational and far-reaching decisions at a time of emotional turmoil. This may also be your first experience with the court system and hiring an attorney. Expenses often increase when a spouse moves out and sets up a separate household. It is important, however, to keep a clear head. Don't let emotions (e.g., revenge) result in missed payments, lapsed insurance, or other negative consequences. Search This Site: